"Embracing the Golden Years: A Journey of Hope and Love in the Old Age Haven"

 

                 Amar thikana tai BRIDHHASHRAM…….

Yes, if my address will be an old age home then, what is the harm?

Several years ago, a Bengali singer sang this song, and since then, most people have developed increasingly negative thoughts about it. The image of society at that time was also responsible for this perception. However, even though I was very young back then but none of the lyrics of this song had a negative impact on me from that time. On the contrary, the positive portrayal of old age homes compelled me to think: why do people struggle to accept this beautiful institution? Why do some individuals continue to post negative comments about this wonderful place? Why is it still considered a taboo by some people today?

If you deeply contemplate, you will understand that an old age home signifies more than just a physical residence for the elderly; it represents their abode, their sanctuary for their mind and soul.

Yes, while some people may label old age homes negatively due to their narrow-mindedness but I have always observed the positive aspects of these facilities and aim to highlight them to society.

If I were to explain the concept of an old age home based on the previous generation, I would say that the parents of the previous generation relied heavily on their sons and daughters. Regardless of the parents' living arrangements, their children made decisions concerning their well-being and care. For children of previous generations, a significant challenge arose when they had to be away for work or study and needed to find a secure place for their parents.

But the present age has changed; Most people are free now. They understand their own strengths and weaknesses, and they can take responsibility for themselves. In fact, the present age has taught us that to thrive in life and keep pace with the times, we need to embrace everything that is beneficial to our well-being. Therefore, parents in this era can keep up with the present and plan for their future. They can consider the option of staying in a good, luxurious elderly home that ensures they don't burden someone else with their needs.

Some social issues about the old age homes.

Elderly neglect, social isolation, financial exploitation, limited healthcare access, deteriorating mental and physical health, ageism and stigma, lack of individualized care, emotional distress, inadequate legal protection, and intergenerational gap are significant issues in old age homes. These problems include insufficient attention, isolation from families, exorbitant fees, substandard healthcare, cognitive and physical decline, social stigma, lack of personalized care, emotional distress, absence of legal safeguards, and limited interactions between generations. Addressing these concerns is crucial for improving the well-being and quality of life for the elderly in such facilities.

Breaking all taboos, let's discuss the benefits of old age homes.

Now, we will discuss the benefits of an old age home and aim to break the taboos that still persist in our society and people's minds regarding these facilities.

With rising crime rates, living in a community is safer than living alone. However, let's consider a scenario where an old couple has only one married daughter. While many daughters would love to take care of their parents, some might not feel comfortable with their daughter after marriage.

It's important to prioritize the comfort of your parents above everything else. Therefore, before making any decisions, bring them home and see if they genuinely feel comfortable in that environment.

parents who are 55 and older and value their lives, privacy, self-discovery, social connections, and the desire to be close to nature while still being connected to the city's attractions, might consider planning to live in a luxury retirement community. This would allow them to start a new chapter in their lives, fulfilling their untapped potential and enriching their lives.

Old age homes, also known as retirement homes or senior living communities, offer several benefits and advantages for older adults.

Here are some of them:

1. Socialization: Old age homes provide a social environment where seniors can interact with peers and form new friendships. This can help combat feelings of loneliness and isolation that some elderly individuals may experience.
2. Safety and security: Retirement homes often have security measures in place, such as gated entrances, surveillance systems, and staff available around the clock. This creates a safe and secure living environment for older adults, giving them peace of mind, give 24 × 7 nursing care and ambulance service, administering medication and providing medical support in emergencies, assistance during hospital admission and discharge.
3. Professional care and support: Many old age homes have trained staff members, including nurses and caregivers, who are available to assist residents with their daily needs. This can include help with activities of daily living, medication management, and medical emergencies.
4. Maintenance-free living: Senior living communities often take care of maintenance tasks such as housekeeping, laundry, and yard work. This relieves older adults of the burden of home maintenance, allowing them to focus on enjoying their retirement years.
5. Access to amenities and services: Retirement homes may offer various amenities and services on-site, such as fitness centres, libraries, common dining areas, recreational activities, and transportation services and Fire-safety system. These amenities can contribute to a fulfilling and active lifestyle for older adults.
6. Health care accessibility: old age homes are often located in close proximity to medical facilities and hospitals, ensuring easy access to healthcare services when needed. This can be particularly beneficial for seniors who require regular medical attention or have chronic health conditions.
7. Peace of mind for families: For family members, having their loved ones in an old age home can provide peace of mind, knowing that their aging parents or relatives are in a supportive environment with access to care and assistance.

Also, I know one old age home where they speak spontaneously about their everyday experiences, their caring and affectionate staff and assistants, and the numerous modern-day facilities thoughtfully designed for the elders.

Some a luxury retirement homes offer excellent facilities for accommodating guests for short stays, ranging from one night to a long weekend. Also facilitates…….

·         Company of like-minded people

·         Regular physical exercise

·         A balanced and nutritious diet

·         Possibility of engaging in social and cultural activities

·         Also have Door – step Banking facility

·         Cultural shows with eminent performing artistes

·         Lectures/discourses: Talks, workshops, discourses, etc. are conducted on varied topics.

·         Support for pursuing hobbies like gardening, fishing, etc.

·         Hand-picked movies are screened twice a week for the residents and this is something that everyone eagerly looks forward to.

·         Social gatherings

·         CCTV camera & surveillance

 In conclusion, old age homes play a crucial role in providing care and support to the elderly.     These facilities offer a safe and comfortable environment where seniors can receive the assistance they need while maintaining their independence. By embracing the concept of old age homes, we can ensure the well-being and dignity of our aging population.

So, I want to say to all my senior people, "Please go ahead and Sing that singer's song..."

                   

        Swapno swapno swapno swapno dakhe MON........